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They fell in love
with the prompt.

You fell through the cracks. Vibes Anon is the twelve-step program for partners of people hopelessly addicted to vibe coding. No judgment. Just understanding.

Find Out How Bad It Is Read the Warning Signs The Twelve Steps

What is Vibes Anon?

We're a community of partners, spouses, and loved ones navigating life with someone who can't stop asking AI to build things. Things nobody asked for. Things that already exist. Things that will never be finished.

Our twelve-step program combines real emotional support with the kind of dark humor you can only develop after your anniversary dinner is interrupted by a "critical deployment."

The Vibe Coder's Partner Checklist

✓ Your partner has shipped more apps than compliments this year
✓ You know what a "merge conflict" is but wish you didn't
✓ "I'll be right there" now means 45 minutes minimum
✓ Their git commit history is longer than your last conversation
✓ You've been introduced to someone as "my rubber duck"
✓ The WiFi bill is your third largest household expense

The Twelve Steps

A path from "helpless bystander" to "empowered partner." One step at a time.

Admit the problem

Find your strength

Reclaim your space

Take inventory

Share your truth

Set boundaries

Ask for change

Make amends

Forgive (the apps)

Stay vigilant

Reconnect deeply

Help others heal

The hardest part wasn't watching them code all night. It was realizing they didn't notice I'd stopped waiting up.

— Anonymous partner, Vibes Anon member since 2024

Frequently Asked Questions

You Deserve More Than
"I'll Be Right There"

Take the first step tonight. Our community is waiting — and we actually pay attention when you talk.

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